Slow....

I read a fellow bloggers post!
and my song 'slow' was on there hence the name of the blog!....lol
P.S: It's not the sexual content of the song that makes it good!...although it might be that a lil ;)
It's when he says 'the other guys just wanna hit' and says your 'shit is the shit' making it seem like he's talking bout something entirely different


By the way, I'm saving till marriage also *Like most girls I believe* so dont think anything of this :)



So It's 6:57 PM and I'm home with a lot of work to do!
But everyone who knows me knows about my addiction to shoes and shopping online*trust me there's nothing better than resting and shopping* lol!
So I'm online looking for the new pair to make my collection since I didnt't buy no shoes in march *a bit odd* I must tell u I have come across some ugly looking things and some great ones.
In the words of my friend, Biso!...
I just had a shoegasm tee hee! love u girlie

Shoes -must have

• Always have black pumps....U can never go wrong when u have some black pumps and in my opinion one is not enough.


• Dont be afraid to try colors


• Always have nude pumps!.....I personally believe that this is a must have.


• Remember shoes can make the whole outfit pop or dull...... the choice is yours


• Never think that just because the outfit doesnt have purple in it you cant wear purple shoes!(and that goes for other colors too)


• Heels! Heels! Heels!
• Booties! I repeat booties! Booties are the new pumps in my opinion


• If You love shoes like I do and u happen to be in yankee!....the stores ----> DSW, Aldo (sometimes), Nordstrom, Macy's (sometimes), If u in miami U already know its BaySide or sawgrass, aventura for the shoes.


• By the way everyone needs to have some kind of sandal flats.........because I know we all do not want to wear heels all the time.

Shoe designers: Vince Camuto, Christian Louboutin amongst others.....above are pictures of some louboutin black pumps and yellow!....and also some vince camuto booties *which I already ordered* :)
Please let me know about any new shoes It'll be greatly appreciated


*purple kisses*

Returning to Blogsville.............

Ok!...I'm back!

It's been almost 6 moths. One of my friends wrote saying she missed me in blogsville and I apologize for putting the blog on the back burner. Sometimes living in Miami makes you forget the other important things you love even when you dont want too.....There are just so many distractions ;p ...................

It's just crazy!!!!.....lol

I've being going through people's blogs and the question that comes to mind is what is going on in blogsville these days!!!

The whole ggn for example and the gossipboy naija???.....I'm sorry but whoever did that must be gay!

People will definitely agree with me!...Why will a boy think of putting himself through such torture?.....lmao

I think focusing on gossip is just not relevant at the stage I'm in rite now

what happens after the gist???.....then......Thats the question I always ask!

Yes!...I know I'm weird every girl loves gossip!.....really guys??? I dont think so!

Don't get me wrong If your ass isn't dressing cute I probably will put u out there!...I cant stand when people just dont try to put themselves together.

Ladies!Men!.....Young Boys and girls!!!....Even if you are a naturally ugly person....lol... lol!......at least try to dress in a good manner, Ladies get your weave *oops* hair done! , Young fellas who like to be called grown ass men *which I find very amusing* dress like grown ass men then. All them baggy clothes just dont cut it I think we all should know that and extra skinny jeans does not cut it for u guys also!

I feel like this is a new beginning!!!!

Who feels me???

P.S: For those who understand It's not about my poems or the traumas of life *so pathetic i know* but let's save that for another time

*Purple Kiss3s*

Dream world...........

So I was listening to Robin Thicke's Dream world....It's a good song. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utYiUCjyaY0

Today has been on the eventful side. I've seen people at school all trying to achieve their dream of a career. Everyone is trying to be focused and has an idea of where they want to go in life but people always forget that the road would not always be perfect. So many unanswered questions have been running through my mind so I thought I'll share them with you.

What happens?
When against all odds victory is still not seen?
When one forgets their dream or purpose?

What is..........
The essence of living with nothing to be accomplished?
The difference between living and live in?
I've wondered ever since my thinking years, why do people live the way they do? What are the basis for most principles people lay for themselves? Why do people have goals that in a million years might look impossible to accomplish. Some people say faith goes a long way. It gives courage to the weakened heart, the desolate people and even those who are expected to have given up. It's belief in oneself and other people's belief in you that counts.

Some people say love helps people move on when it looks like everything is shattered, when they realize they have nothing but a deterred dream. It is the feeling that people still care that keep them going on.

This is something to think about when dreaming. I think one can prepare and keep reminding themselves that regardless of anything that might happen they still have a goal to achieve.

Purple Kiss3s!

Today was one great sunday!
Started with waking up to the crazy heat in Miami I'm telling you it is worse than Nigeria!!!
I have loads of work to do ......Got my interim reports today and I'm proud!

One thing I did today that I'm proud of though is I finally let myself go...
This isn't by me though but by a great friend of mine!!!.....im so proud of you!
It's called "How you make me feel"- Jemimah Obaro!!!....love u girl!


I remember when I saw you yesterday.
A smile danced on my lips,
My heart leaped for joy as we briefly brushed each other.
Your gaze met mine; it felt like some unseen force held our eyes together,
The twinkle in your eyes inducing a corresponding twinkle in mine.
I am so in love with a handsome stranger!
I could well be on cloud nine or eleven.......well whatever,
The thought of you always lingering in my mind.
My heart beats faster when you're around but at the same time my
Body unwinds from tension and stress.
You walked into my life so easily,
Stealing the keys to unlock my heart.
You swiped me off my feet calmly,
And now I'm head over heels!
I still wonder how a perfect gentleman could generate
Such strong emotions in me...
The art of romance, the song of love; you've effortlessly mastered the skills.
I take pleasure in your cuddle.
Having your arm around me in that warm hug,
Sends a tingle down my spine but at the same time
a sense of protection settles in my mind.
Tiny, pretty butterflies make themselves at home in my stomach, as my heart connects with yours; the chemistry becoming increasingly stronger.
When we are together in the midst of a boisterous crowd,
It feels like we are alone in our world....this magical world!
An overwhelming feeling of ecstasy and excitement
Clouds my mentation of reality.
That's how you make me feel.

Hi bloggers!!!!
So much has been going on lately! I think even the greatest walls have been pulled down..and at the end it has a positive effect....This is a short one.....



Slowly but gradually......
You brought down every wall....

I opened up myself to you
here and now...
It took years but I finally did it....


Thank you because now I can fall without getting hurt

So even if you leave, I will forever leave the walls down....
Never to hide from the outside world....



*Purple Kiss3s*

The walls....

I built a wall around myself
cuz like natasha bedingfield said...'I bruise easily'. I try my best to cover up everything....but no matter what happens everywhere it shows
my skin is like a map of how i feel...i'm trying my best to learn how to fall with no safety near
cuz u leave marks on me like a love heart carved on a tree
be gentle when handling me because u cant scratch the surface without moving me underneath...
I love this song....It's so much me its unbelievable!......


Ok as I was saying about the wall I built
It took a while but gradually and slowly every wall was brought down...leaving me vulnerable to the outside world. Now every little thing hurts....
Now i bruise easily!....I'm trying so hard to pull the walls back up
it's like everything refuses to be put back up
I need to protect myself from the hurt, the pain, everything......
I guess it's too late now.....
It's going to be a long time before the walls are ever put up again
Like that saying goes, "You only build wals around u to see who will care enough to pull them down".....Back then, U cared enough to try and I'm sure u still do in your own little way!


Well It's just something I was thinking about ...
Most of us build these walls
Sometimes i hope we can all be strong enough to hold them and not allow them to be pulled down...



Lots of love,
Mide Olabimtan

Memoirs of A teenage girl Pt. 2...

Okay most of you remember part 1.....So here is another one!....Another teenage girl!...u teenagers always have problems o!...lol

I promised myself never to love again....I swore that at least for my teenage years never again will i be caught in that kind of trap!...I guess I was wrong....I thought I could escape from this heart ache once again!....
Once again, The deed has been done in the sense that I'm repeating the same thing all over....They say once bitten, twice shy!..I guess it's different in my case...
I keep going back to the same thing more like the case of an abused wife!...It's not that I'm stupid...I just believe this time will be different...every time I believe it'll be different seems its worse than the last.
Wow!...I finally thought u were the one!...Wait! let me rephrase it I still think u r the one! Everyone I know thinks I'm stupid, everyone thinks I have a problem believing u!
The question is "Do I?"..
I'll never forget the first he hurt me so much....U swear u don't want to be like him...And U already act like him!...
Sometimes listening to my friends just might be right but once again I don't want to be like the abused wife who listens to her friends and ends up being terribly hurt again!...
U don't even make an effort to be here!...Not even a bit of u has been put into making this thing work!....I feel like a door without a key....like a face without a name...I feel like a child who has lost its way...I feel like a breath without the air...It seems everything is so incomplete!....
Maybe just maybe u added something to whatever this is supposed to be....I guess u started it and left it for me to finish....It's like a book without no ending!...the writers have to end it together bay...not just me!....Remember it has to be both of us...
Even though U r worth more than the ex- scum you are beginning to act like him in so many ways, it hurts so much!....I try so hard to hide my feelings I'm almost perfect at it....Half of the time U don't even understand what I'm going through...Deep down there bay I'm hurting!...I'm crying in there!..more like I'm ripping in half!...Sometimes it just seems like I'm wasting my time!...Sometimes I wonder if u r blind or more like deaf!...Can't u hear the hurt in my voice?!
Most of the time I feel like u have so much to say, u just don't know how to express yourself....Bay I don't need much from you I just need to know u care
I need to know u r as strong as i am...I'm sure u r not!...Everyday I pray U don't listen to your friends sometimes when they discourage u!....that's why I pray for u to be strong....The funniest part of it all is U don't even know u act the way u do!
Bay U really don't have to worry though!....No matter what people say, despite all your flaws...and funny enough no matter how much U hurt me...It seems like I just love u more!....They might not understand but everyone is on the outside looking in!...No matter what they say bay Imma stay loving u!...can't u see thats why u r my bay and not my baby!....

Love,
The Girl who wishes you loved her as much as she does you!....